by V Bongfen, Marriage and Family Life Coach | Jul 16, 2025 | Finance
A growing number of African couples are maintaining financial independence inside marriage. but at what cost to intimacy and mental health? In many African communities, marriage has long carried the expectation of a man providing financially, while some adopted the...
by V Bongfen, Marriage and Family Life Coach | Jul 16, 2025 | Motherhood
Everyone is screaming about the seed. The idea. The prophecy. The calling. The dream. But the Lord whispered something deeper… “It’s not the seed that fails. It’s the womb that was never prepared.” A seed is not the beginning of greatness. The womb is. The womb must...
by V Bongfen, Marriage and Family Life Coach | Jul 16, 2025 | Parenting
The everyday life is shaped by resilience narratives, with African and African American parents navigating the mental health crisis among children and their rising anxiety. For generations, cultural legacies have been handed down for preservation, especially with the...
by V Bongfen, Marriage and Family Life Coach | Jun 18, 2025 | Relationship
Let’s be real—most relationships don’t fall apart because of one big blow-up. It’s usually the small misfires that quietly chip away at connection. The misunderstood tone. The half-heard comment. The silent thought: “Why are we even talking if we’re not hearing each...
